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im 15 and i havent had my period yet but all my friends have. i am maturing physically like i have boobs and body hair. im just nervous that maybe i wont get it and then i wont be able to have children. is there something wrong with me or am i just late?

Fri, 30 Nov 2012 13:47:11 +1000

thats completely fine. you may just be late, its normal for girls ages to vary. ask your mum when she first got hers some girls can get their first period at the age of 8 where others can get them at 17. if you are really nervous about it maybe see a doctor but its very rare to not get your period at all. one of my friends has a gene that she wont get her period but when she is 16 her doctor will give her a pill and that will start it. but im sure there is nothing to worry about :)

so i like this guy, hes my brothers bestfriend which makes it hard but he said he likes me too and wants to date but not tell my brother. i find it weird how he is his bestfriend but wants to keep his girlfriend a secret. if its a secret from my brother than i guess its a secret from my family as well which isnt easy because im not old enough to drive myself to our dates. he got angry at me the other day because i said it would be too hard. what should i do? help me!

Fri, 30 Nov 2012 13:43:24 +1000

i think i know the feeling you have right now. no i havent liked my brothers friend but ive liked a guy that put me in a tough position. i think that you should talk to your brother and ask if he is okay with you dating his friend. most brothers wont care, my sister is dating my brothers friend and its totally fine. also if he will get mad over little things like that you might need to calm him down or space yourself because its bad being in a relationship with an angry person. definetly talk to your brother or get the boy you like to talk to him and go from there

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Fri, 30 Nov 2012 13:34:07 +1000

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ok so there's this guy i really like and i've liked him for ages! i have never spoken to him and he doesn't no i exist :( to make matters worse he is my brothers friend so I cant ever talk to him without my bro being creeped out btw my bro is older than me. So what can i do to get him to like me? please help!

Sun, 14 Oct 2012 16:43:15 +1000

just maybe start a convasation with him on fb or something at first so your brother cant see and then if you like him more arrange to go out with a group of friends and try it out. your brother wont care after a while. my sister is dating one of my brothers friends and its all good. he doesnt care :) just start small and grow big and it will be all sweet x

my first boyfriend and i split up 3 months ago and i totally dont want him back but when i see him talking, texting or facebooking other girls it really frustrates me. i think its jealously but im not entirely sure because i really dont like him and i start to hate him when he is with other girls. is it normal? or does it actually mean that i still love him?

Sun, 07 Oct 2012 16:29:39 +1000

i know how you feel. i’ve heard that your first love is the love you wont forget which actually sucks. my first real boyfriend and i split up over a year ago but we were always on and off. everytime hes with a girl i still get a tiny bit angry but i just hold myself together and act like i dont care. im pretty sure it is normal but if you know in your brain that you dont want to be with him then listen to it because sometimes your heart isnt so smart. good luck though, try out different ways to deal with it.

have you ever done something you shouldnt have and regret it?

Sun, 07 Oct 2012 16:24:25 +1000

i’ve done lots of things that i would have regretted at the time but i guess life is about taking chances and making mistakes and without them i wouldnt be who i am today. so no not really i dont regret anything

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Sun, 07 Oct 2012 16:22:33 +1000

do you ever feel insecure? like you're not good enough?

Sun, 07 Oct 2012 16:21:27 +1000

i think every does at some point. i do admit i did around the beginning of the year but then i just surrounded myself with really strong and amazing people and it kind of just went away.

i believe everyone is good enough for anything they want to be, the only person that can stop them is themself. yes some people may be prettier or skinnier but everyone is different so you really can’t compare yourself to anyone except if you have an identical twin but your personalities are also different.

ive also learnt to just accept myself for what my soul is like and i can say that i do have a good soul and someday some boy will find me and love me and i will feel good enough.

you just have to put the bullies and bad emotions behind you because everyone is special in their own way

why don't you post photos of yourself on here?

Sun, 07 Oct 2012 16:11:35 +1000

because this blog is supposed to be anonymous. like a magazine and i dont think my blog should be filled with photos of myself while people are trying to get advice from me.

i post a few on my main blog: www.c-nielsen.tumblr.com

click on ‘my uploads’ and thats what i look like :)

what do you do when the guy slides his tongue in? i usually just freak out and pull away because i don't know what to do...

Tue, 04 Sep 2012 19:38:16 +1000

you’re just like kissing normally but for longer and then he will just put his tongue in your mouth and then you put yours in his and yeah..

how do you make out with someone?

Tue, 04 Sep 2012 18:34:29 +1000

ummmmmm i dont know how to explain it but you just like kiss and then the guy normally slides the tongue in and it goes from there

teacher: let's go around the classroom and have everyone say something about themselves

Tue, 04 Sep 2012 18:33:17 +1000

teacher: let's go around the classroom and have everyone say something about themselves
me: FUCK

I JUST WANT TO BE FUCKING HAPPY AGAIN. I DONT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED.

Sun, 26 Aug 2012 13:20:35 +1000

i feel the same way

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Fri, 17 Aug 2012 16:27:24 +1000

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i mainly hang out with guys, i dont have many female friends. and im 100% straight but lately iv gotten a lot of shit for being a "lesbien" and evryone is like you have no friends. but i chose to chill with guys, its just annoying more than anything! what would you do?

Thu, 16 Aug 2012 19:06:06 +1000

you shouldn’t worry about what other people think. if you know you are straight then you are and peoples opinions arent gonna change that :) ignore the rumors cause if you retalliate they will spread more things

what do you do if the girl you love barely knows you exist?

Sat, 04 Aug 2012 19:52:17 +1000

tell them how you feel. girls love feeling wanted

im a girl and i was wondering should i start smokin weed cause my dad does it heaps and i was wondering because it makes you feel happy and its good for you but my doctor says i shouldnt because it makes me ugly cause its sweatz and pimples. ???

Sat, 04 Aug 2012 19:51:56 +1000

don’t smoke weed

im 16 and ima guy, and i think im gay but i dont know wat to tell my parents cus they might get mad and i dont wanna tell my friends that im gay cause they will lauf at me but i wont to because im gonna have to tell ppl sometime. how should i tell my people that im gay becuz im scared of what they r gona think and im pretty sure that i cant be strait my whole life becuse thats the way i am

Sat, 04 Aug 2012 19:51:40 +1000

you should just say ‘im gay’

do any of your friends cut?

Sat, 04 Aug 2012 19:50:47 +1000

yeah, a few

do any of your friend have eating disorders?

Sat, 04 Aug 2012 19:50:33 +1000

not that i know of